more progress - after much deliberating about how best to solve the rear upper engine mount, its now sorted.
opened up the original mounting bolt holes from 10mm to 20mm, measured the gaps left and right, then turned up these 2 top hat spacers, 20mm outer diameter, bored 10mm to take the mounting bolt.
then I had to mark where the top hat sat on the frame weld
and grind it flat
with this done on both sides, the top hat spacers could sit flat on the frame plate and aligned
and with the motor in place
once tightened, this mount will hold the motor in place with no other support, so it must be OK
easy job next, making the lower rear mounts, before it goes to have the front mounts welded on.